Teaching your teen to drive is one of the most dreaded and equally exciting times in a parent’s life. It’s rewarding to know your child is growing up and gaining independence and at the same time, handing them the keys and getting in the passenger seat can be very unnerving. Parents may feel overwhelmed by the responsibility of ensuring their teen is ready for the open road and teaching them the ever-challenging parallel parking task, which most parents have a hard time perfecting. Getting a driver’s license is a big moment for teens, but parents might worry when their teen starts driving alone because car accidents are one of the leading causes of injury and death for young people. However, teaching teens how to drive safely can help parents feel better about letting their teens drive. Here are five tips to help teach your teen to drive safely:1
- Practice Makes Perfect: Invest the required hours behind the wheel with your teen and take them for drives in various conditions (after dark, challenging weather conditions, etc.). A cemetery might be perfect because technically you can’t really hurt anyone and the narrow, curvy roads allow for perfecting precise turns. Allow them to ask questions so they know what to do when they drive on their own. Setting a good example is always the best teacher.
- Stay Calm and Patient: When you drive with your teen, try to stay calm. If you’re upset or stressed, it might make your teen nervous which could lead to mistakes. Try to practice driving when you’re feeling calm, so they can focus better.
- Eliminate Distractions: Teen drivers need to stay focused so leaving their phones at home during practice is not a bad idea. Distracted driving is a big cause of accidents – 58% of teen crashes are caused by distractions. While your teen may want their friends involved in this exciting new experience, limiting the ride along to one friend maximum will help lessen their stress, and more importantly your stress.
- Create a “New Driver” Agreement: Nothing articulates the seriousness of an agreement by putting it in writing. This may seem strange for some parents, but it’s a good introduction to situations they will soon be facing in the real world. This can include things like when they can use the car, who will pay for gas, and what the consequences will be if they break any rules. A clear agreement can help prevent arguments later and further teaches responsibility.
- Set a Good Example: Adults sometimes drive too fast or get distracted, too. It’s important to show your teen that you take driving seriously by not using your phone or speeding. Sharing your own driving mistakes with your teen can help teach them to be careful behind the wheel.
By following these tips, you can help your teen become a safer driver and make both of you feel more confident on the road! If you are interested in becoming a member and gaining access to our Resource Center ($10/month or $99/annually), visit https://advocatefortheinnocent.org/memberships/ to learn more.
1 – https://ptaourchildren.org/five-tips-to-teach-your-teen-to-be-a-safe-driver/