What Kids Are Learning About Bodies & Identity

Sexual Health Education: What’s Being Taught

In a recent post, we shared that parents are informed of the content taught to their children in school, but may not have the bandwidth to review the communications fully and take a proactive approach when it comes to overseeing or approving the content. Listed below are some examples of content taught to children at different grade levels.1

Grades Pre-K through 2

Children are curious about their genitals and it’s important to teach the correct anatomical terms.

  • Learn the difference between fun secrets and those that make you unhappy or uncomfortable
  • Answers children’s questions about where they came from and where babies come from
  • Provides experiences of a transgender YouTube personality
  • Introductory lesson on consent and bodily autonomy in response to over-exuberant huggers
  • Coloring sheets that teach body safety and support the Safe Children’s Act or Erins Law
  • Resources that support LGBTQ+ family members

Grades 3 through 5

Children are curious about bodies and how they work, and learn how to build healthy relationships.

  • Defines boundaries regarding nudity, sex and touch; birth sex, gender identity and roles
  • Love, same-sex attraction, conception, IVF and puberty (periods, hormones, erections)
  • Dialogues on affection, respect for others, predators, romantic love and online dangers
  • Lessons on gender, sexual reproduction, intercourse, sexual orientation and masturbation
  • Tools to talk with children about identity, relationships, pregnancy, personal safety and sex
  • Age-appropriate sexual behavior, and concerning or very concerning sexual behavior

Grades 6 through 8

Children are experiencing puberty and exploring gender and sexual identity

  • Informs young people about risk and reward, joy and discovery, harassment and pornography
  • Reproduction that includes trans, non-binary and intersex bodies and experiences
  • Self-image, finding and claiming your sexual self; determining gender and sexual identity
  • Protect and support sexual and emotional health
  • Guidance to identify, prevent and heal from sexual abuse or assault
  • Resources for children 12+ who are seeking information on STIs, HIV, contraception, abortion, outpatient mental health counseling, alcohol or substance about counseling, and treatment related to sexual abuse and injuries

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1 – https://www.advocatesforyouth.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/NSES-2020-web.pdf and https://www.chataboutit.org/know-your-rights/