As families across the country gather around tables filled with warmth, tradition, and gratitude, Thanksgiving offers us a moment to pause and reflect on what truly matters. While celebrations create joy for some, they can also intensify pressures within families facing financial hardship, emotional strain, or unresolved trauma. These conditions can increase the risk of child abuse or neglect – making this week not only a time for giving thanks, but also a time for heightened awareness and compassion.
Research and frontline experience show that periods of school breaks and family gatherings can sometimes lead to increased vulnerability for children. When routines change and support systems – such as teachers, counselors, and after-school staff – temporarily step back, some children lose important layers of protection. That’s why this week offers a powerful opportunity for all of us to play a part in prevention. Here are some ways we can protect children this week:2
- Support Parents and Caregivers: Parenting is one of the hardest jobs, especially during the holidays. Offering help (childcare, a meal, or listening) can make a life-changing difference.
- Model Healthy Communication: Children watch how adults handle conflict. Showing patience, understanding, and empathy during holiday stress sends a clear message about safety and respect.
- Keep an Eye Out: If you see or sense that a child may be in danger, trust your instincts and follow through. Reporting concerns can save a life—and it’s an act of care, not accusation.
- Teach Body Safety and Boundaries: Family gatherings often include unfamiliar relatives or family friends. Remind children that they have the right to their own boundaries and body autonomy.
These numbers remind us that child abuse is not rare… it happens in every community, every neighborhood, and often behind closed doors. Some statistics reveal the importance of how every adult has a responsibility to protect children they know:1,2
- In 2022, ~558,899 children in the U.S. were confirmed victims of abuse or neglect.
- Neglect is the most common form of maltreatment, accounting for 74–76% of all cases.
- In 2023, 111,920 victims were infants, and 128,004 were between ages two and five.
- An estimated 1,990 children died from abuse or neglect in 2023.
This Thanksgiving, let’s extend our gratitude into action. Let’s ensure every child feels the safety and warmth that this holiday represents. Whether by supporting a family, volunteering in your community, or advocating for policies that protect children year-round, your compassion matters. Your support, partnership, and voice make a tangible impact in the lives of children who need it most. If you are interested in becoming an Advocate for the Innocent member and gaining access to our Resource Center ($10/month or $99/annually), visit https://advocatefortheinnocent.org/memberships/.